This is how shoelaces always hold
When (too) I wanted to show my little nephew the tying of shoelaces, he declared indignantly: "But Mama does that very differently!".
When I interviewed other people as well, I noticed that I actually tied the shoes differently - presumably because I can work equally well with both right and left.
Here is the resolution of the "riddle", which also represents the tip:
When lacing you form a knot and then a loop. Most of us, because of their right-handedness (or left-handedness), automatically tie the knot in the same direction and the following noose in the same (!) Direction: right-handed people make both to the right (clockwise), counter-clockwise to left-handed.
But I have always - without noticing - although like all formed a knot, but worked the following loop in the opposite direction. Automatically, the laces lay horizontally and are no longer so crooked on the lug. Above all: Now they do not dissolve automatically and last so long (and also tight (!), Until you raise them easily as usual!
Give it a try - it's worth more than a try!